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Wellbeing Begins with “We”

The Physical and Mental Health Benefits of Interventions that Increase Social Closeness

Volume 6. Interventions and Policies to Enhance Wellbeing

Part 1. Individual and Group Interventions across the Life Course

  1. Bethany E. Kok,
  2. Barbara L. Fredrickson

Published Online: 17 DEC 2013

DOI: 10.1002/9781118539415.wbwell042

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Kok, B. E. and Fredrickson, B. L. 2013. Wellbeing Begins with “We”. Wellbeing. 6:1:7:1–29.

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  1. University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, U.S.A.

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  1. Published Online: 17 DEC 2013

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