This research was supported in part by a grant to the third author from the Templeton Foundation (Grant No. 5158).
Self-Respect and Pro-Relationship Behavior in Marital Relationships
Version of Record online: 7 NOV 2002
Journal of Personality
Volume 70, Issue 6, pages 1009–1050, December 2002
How to Cite
Kumashiro, M., Finkel, E. J. and Rusbult, C. E. (2002), Self-Respect and Pro-Relationship Behavior in Marital Relationships. Journal of Personality, 70: 1009–1050. doi: 10.1111/1467-6494.05030
- Issue online: 7 NOV 2002
- Version of Record online: 7 NOV 2002
ABSTRACT This work advances an interdependence theoretic analysis of the role of self-respect in ongoing close relationships. Self-respect is defined as the tendency to perceive the self as a principled person who is worthy of honor and high regard and is argued to rest on moral integrity. Consistent with predictions, results from a study of marital relationships revealed that individual self-respect is positively associated with both the individual's and the partner's pro-relationship behavior (accommodation, forgiveness, conciliation). Mediation analyses revealed that self-respect not only exhibits direct associations with each person's behavior, but also exhibits indirect associations with each person's behavior, via the impact of each person's actions on reciprocal pro-relationship behavior from the partner. Mediation was more reliably observed for the association of self-respect with partner behavior than for the association with individual behavior. Both individual pro-relationship behavior and partner pro-relationship behavior are positively associated with couple well-being, which in turn is positively associated with personal well-being (life satisfaction, physical health, psychological adjustment). These associations were evident in both within-participant and across-partner analyses and for both self-report and interaction-based measures of behavior. Self-respect reliably accounts for unique variance beyond variance attributable to self-esteem.