Rediscovering Family and Kinship: new directions for social work theory, policy and practice

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‘Other children say you're not normal because you don't live with your parents’. Children's views of living with informal kinship carers: social networks, stigma and attachment to carers

  1. Elaine Farmer*,
  2. Julie Selwyn,
  3. Sarah Meakings

Article first published online: 3 JAN 2013

DOI: 10.1111/cfs.12030

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Child & Family Social Work

Child & Family Social Work

Special Issue: Rediscovering Family and Kinship: new directions for social work theory, policy and practice

Volume 18, Issue 1, pages 25–34, February 2013

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Farmer, E., Selwyn, J. and Meakings, S. (2013), ‘Other children say you're not normal because you don't live with your parents’. Children's views of living with informal kinship carers: social networks, stigma and attachment to carers. Child & Family Social Work, 18: 25–34. doi: 10.1111/cfs.12030

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  1. School for Policy Studies, University of Bristol, Bristol, UK

* Correspondence:
Elaine Farmer,
School for Policy Studies,
University of Bristol,
8 Priory Road,
Bristol BS8 1TZ,
UK
E-mail: e.r.farmer@bristol.ac.uk

Publication History

  1. Issue published online: 3 JAN 2013
  2. Article first published online: 3 JAN 2013
  3. Manuscript Accepted: SEP 2012

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